I’m sorry for all these words.
I’ve done some additional testing. After selecting Create deposit addresses now for all users on XMR adapter setting.
This fixed the wrong user/address issues.
I was able to send and receive to the wallet.
However, on wallets > transaction page I’m still having issues showing confirmation count on outbound transactions.
I’m seeing this occasionally in my monero rpc log:
Error calling gettransactions daemon RPC: r 1, status <error>
I don’t know if that’s related to my issue of missing confirm counts on withdraws.